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1. Dear Robbyne,
I started my own business several
months ago after resigning from my
job which was stressing me out. I’ve
always dreamed of starting my own
photography business. When I first
made my decision to leave my job my
fiancée, who I live with was
extremely supportive. As I’m
struggling to get my business off
the ground my fiancée is not
as supportive as he once was. He is
paying the majority of the household
bills. I don’t have a lot of
income from my business at the moment.
I’m surprised and hurt by my
fiancée’s attitude. I
don’t want to give up on my
dream of having this business but
I don’t want to lose my man.
– Entrepreneur in distress,
NY
• Dear
Distressed,
Girl, my mother taught me when I was
three years old to always have my
own money and never let a motherfucker
think that you have to depend on him
to survive. Starting a business is
rewarding but difficult. I understand
about wanting to leave a shitty job.
But serious thought needs to go into
setting up a business. You don’t
see a profit in the beginning and
it’s important to have a nest
egg to cover you until you get the
business off the ground. But I take
my hat off to you for jumping in and
following your dreams. I don’t
know how long you’ve been with
this man but if he is not supportive
of you when things get a little rocky,
you may need to re-evaluate the relationship.
You can’t marry a man who isn’t
supportive. If he’s feeling
the financial pinch he should sit
down with you and strategize on how
to work things out. Let him know that
when the business starts to do well
it will benefit both of you. When
the shit jumps off he’ll certainly
want to be there for the good times
so he needs to be patient in the lean
times. Tell him how you feel. Open
up to him. But remember, never give
up your dreams for anybody.
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2.
Dear Robbyne,
My boyfriend and I have been dating
for almost 2 years now and our sex
life is damn good. But last week he
came home with a small dildo. He wanted
me to stimulate his anus with it.
This has freaked me out. I thought
I knew this man. I think he’s
bi-sexual and on the DL.
–
Confused in Detroit
• Dear
Confused,
Calm down, girl. I doubt if you’re
man is gay. If he were he wouldn’t
be asking you to stick something up
his ass, he’d be asking another
man to do it. You have to realize
that a man’s ass is a hotbed
of nerves, as is yours. Stimulating
his anus with your tongue, finger
or dildo can be quite exciting. There
are special dildos that have curved
tips designed to stimulate his prostate.
Girl, that motherfucker will erect
a monument in your honor if you tap
that shit! You should be grateful
that he feels comfortable enough with
you to share his fantasies and desires.
Indulge in some ass play with the
man. Make sure he reciprocates. You’ll
have a whole new world open up to
you.
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Dear Robbyne,
My baby’s father is always tripping
when I date other men. We ain’t
together anymore and he sees other
women. Our daughter is 3 years old.
I don’t want to cut him out
of my daughter’s life. He loves
her and gives me money for her but
I want him to leave me alone. He has
2 other children. He needs to be taking
care of his business instead of worrying
about who is in my face. What can
I do to make him stop?
–
Baby Daddy Drama - Brooklyn, NY
• Dear
Baby Daddy Drama,
This man may still have feelings for
you. In his head it may not be over.
I do hope you’re not doing anything
to encourage this. On occasion some
of us throw pussy to our baby’s
daddy. This is fine as long as the
two of you accept that the relationship
is over and are just satisfying some
urges. If not it leads people to think
that there is hope for getting back
together. If you haven’t fucked
him since you broke up ask him why
he trips when you date other men.
(If your baby’s daddy is a thug
or is on medication you may want to
ask him gently. I don’t want
you to end up in the East River).
He may not realize how he’s
acting. Tell him you think that you
both should be totally committed to
your current mates.
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